“Raising Teenagers Is a Super Skill” — Timi Dakolo Opens Up After His Kids Protest Phone Curfew

Popular Nigerian singer and soulful storyteller Timi Dakolo has once again proven that beyond his vocal prowess, he is a family man navigating the increasingly complex waters of modern parenting. In a recent social media post that has both amused and resonated with many parents, Dakolo candidly shared his real-time experience of raising teenagers, describing the task as a “super skill” in this day and age. The singer, known for his heartfelt lyrics and love for his family, found himself at the center of a relatable parenting moment after his children allegedly staged a mild protest over their set phone curfew.

In his typically witty and poetic manner, Dakolo posted, “Come back to me, when you have started raising teenagers. In this day and age, raising teenagers is a super skill.” The statement came after he enforced a digital boundary in his household, restricting phone use beyond a certain time, much to the dismay of his growing children. As expected, the kids didn’t take it lightly, reportedly voicing their dissatisfaction in what Dakolo jokingly referred to as a mini protest. His humorous reflection not only offered a window into the dynamics of his home life but also struck a chord with parents across social media, many of whom face similar challenges with the digital habits of their children.

The comment section under Dakolo’s post became an instant confessional for parents who have had to wrestle with issues ranging from screen time to TikTok obsessions, from privacy debates to late-night gaming marathons. It also reopened the ever-evolving discussion around parenting in the digital age, especially when it comes to raising teenagers who are growing up with more access to information, opinions, and social pressures than any generation before them. Dakolo’s post did not come across as a rant but more as a sigh — the sigh of a father who deeply loves his children but is also learning, on the job, how to maintain discipline and sanity in a tech-dominated world.

While many fans chuckled at his phrasing, others applauded his bravery in setting boundaries — something that has become increasingly difficult for parents, particularly with the rise of devices becoming personal extensions of modern-day teenagers. The idea of a phone curfew in itself is not new, but enforcing it in a household where the kids feel increasingly empowered to question every rule becomes the ultimate test of emotional intelligence, patience, and resilience. And as Dakolo rightly implied, it takes “super skill.”

This isn’t the first time the “Iyawo Mi” crooner has offered glimpses into his role as a father. He has often shared heartwarming photos and stories of his wife, Busola, and their children, portraying a man deeply invested in family life. But this particular episode was different. It wasn’t about birthday parties or vacation moments; it was about parenting in its raw, unfiltered state. The balancing act of being a cool, understanding dad while also being the firm, guiding adult who occasionally has to say “no” — and mean it.

In today’s digital age, the line between parenting and friendship often blurs, and for many, the fear of being labeled the “strict parent” has led to compromises that may not always favor the child’s long-term development. Dakolo’s experience shows that while love is essential, so is structure. And structure, in this age, requires courage — especially when you’re dealing with tech-savvy kids who might know how to bypass Wi-Fi blocks better than you know how to use a filter on Instagram.

Parents in his comments were quick to share their own versions of teenage resistance: hiding phones under pillows, secretly turning off screen timers, sneaking into bathrooms with devices, and the classic “but all my friends are allowed to!” argument. The common thread among them was that everyone, regardless of status or fame, is facing the same battlefield. It doesn’t matter if you’re a celebrity or a schoolteacher, once your child becomes a teenager, you’re automatically enrolled in a course that includes patience, digital literacy, boundary setting, and negotiation — whether you like it or not.

Interestingly, many teens also chimed in, offering their side of the story. Some argued that phone curfews felt like punishments rather than protective measures, while others admitted that they often lose track of time online and secretly appreciated the boundaries their parents tried to set. A few even joked that they could relate to Dakolo’s kids and had been in similar “protest” modes at home. The discussion turned into a rare cross-generational conversation, something social media doesn’t often succeed in fostering.

For Timi Dakolo, this moment is another testament to how his public persona and personal life harmonize. He has always been that artist who doesn’t mind wearing his heart on his sleeve. From singing about love, pain, and resilience, to speaking openly about marriage, fatherhood, and even politics, Dakolo brings authenticity into every space he occupies. His willingness to share the less glamorous side of parenting — the messy, complicated, emotionally exhausting part — humanizes him and strengthens the bond he has with his fans.

His wife, Busola Dakolo, a photographer and activist, has also been vocal about parenting, womanhood, and family life. Together, they’ve built a reputation for being grounded despite their celebrity status, and their home often looks like a space where love, laughter, and yes, even protests, are welcome. Dakolo’s recent post might have been laced with humor, but it sheds light on the growing need for conscious parenting — not perfect parenting, but present parenting.

Whether you’re enforcing a phone curfew, limiting TV time, or having those awkward conversations about life and growing up, the truth remains: raising teenagers is not for the faint-hearted. It requires a toolkit that no one really gives you — a mix of empathy, firmness, understanding, compromise, and more than anything, patience. Lots and lots of patience. And as Timi Dakolo has so aptly put it, in this day and age, that is indeed a super skill.