A viral clip making waves online captures a young woman painfully recounting how her late uncle’s secret life unraveled after his death — revealing layers of betrayal, heartbreak, and hypocrisy buried within her family.
In the emotional video, she narrates how the man’s long-term affair with a woman named Cindy ended in tragedy after Cindy reportedly aborted twins, an act that later led to reproductive complications. When the uncle passed away, what followed was chaos — hidden children emerged, and whispers of secret relationships turned into public shame.
Her raw confession hits harder as she calls out her own mother and aunties, describing them as “pick mes” — a term used online for women who defend male misbehavior to gain approval from men. She accuses them of giving broken, unreliable relationship advice rooted in outdated beliefs, echoing the generational divide that dominates many modern gender conversations.
The clip, though drawing modest engagement with just six likes and one repost, has struck a chord for its honesty and relatability. Subtitles in the video amplify the emotion with phrases like “she fainted at the funeral” and “he had children with other women”, drawing viewers into a tale that feels all too familiar in many Black family dynamics.
Online, reactions have been mixed — some praise her bravery for speaking out, while others criticize the airing of private family pain in public. Yet beneath the surface, her story mirrors a wider truth about generational silence, unhealed wounds, and the complicated love-hate relationships between modern women and their elders. It’s not just gossip — it’s a mirror many are reluctant to look into.
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"Some of our mothers and aunties are pick mes, that's why I cannot just stay and be listening to some of their advice because it's complete trāsh"
— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) October 26, 2025
— Lady says. pic.twitter.com/z63iGn7jSp