“Don’t Use My Name for Damnation!” – BBN’s Uriel Slams Prophet Helen Over Controversial Marriage Prophecy

In a fiery clapback that has taken over social media, former Big Brother Naija housemate Uriel Oputa has issued a stern warning to self-acclaimed Prophet Helen over what she described as an unsolicited and damaging prophecy about her marital status. The drama, which has ignited heated conversations across X (formerly Twitter), Instagram, and TikTok, unfolded after a viral video showed Prophet Helen claiming that Uriel remains unmarried because “men fear they cannot control and satisfy her.”

The controversial statement was delivered during what appeared to be a live church ministration, where Prophet Helen—whose prophetic messages have gained mixed reception online—declared that Uriel’s “spirit intimidates men,” making her undesirable for marriage in the spiritual realm. But the reality TV star and entrepreneur did not take the message lying down. In a sharply-worded response shared via her Instagram stories and later reposted by fans and blogs alike, Uriel called out the prophetess for dragging her name into what she believes is a manipulative form of religious sensationalism.

“Be careful how you use my name in your so-called prophecy,” Uriel wrote. “Christianity is not a practice of damnation. You do not speak words that cripple someone’s self-esteem and call it a message from God. If God truly gave you that word, He would have also given you a heart of compassion.”

Her reaction struck a chord with thousands of fans and netizens, many of whom applauded her for standing up against what they view as a dangerous trend of public shaming in the name of prophecy. “This is exactly what’s wrong with some religious leaders these days,” commented one X user. “They disguise judgment and humiliation as prophecy. Uriel is right to speak up!”

The incident has sparked broader discourse about the intersection of faith, public figures, and the personal boundaries that often get crossed in the name of divine revelation. For Uriel, the backlash isn’t just about what was said—it’s about how such utterances can perpetuate harmful narratives, especially against women. “When will we stop reducing women’s worth to whether or not they are married?” she questioned in a follow-up video. “Marriage is beautiful, yes, but it is not the validation of one’s existence.”

Uriel, who rose to fame on Big Brother Naija Season 2, has consistently used her platform to advocate for self-love, body positivity, mental health awareness, and women’s empowerment. She has also been open about her journey with fertility and health challenges, including managing PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome), a condition that affects hormone levels and fertility in women. For many of her supporters, Prophet Helen’s statement not only disregarded her journey but also trivialized the emotional weight behind it.

“This is not just about being single,” said another fan in a TikTok live discussion. “Uriel has spoken candidly about her health and her desire to one day become a mother. It’s painful enough without someone standing on a pulpit saying she’s ‘unmarriable’ because men feel intimidated. That’s not prophecy—that’s projection.”

Despite the social media uproar, Prophet Helen has not issued a formal apology or clarification, though members of her church community have defended her by stating that her intentions were “pure” and “inspired by the Holy Spirit.” Some even claim that Uriel should have taken the message as an opportunity for spiritual reflection rather than public rebuke.

But many disagree, especially among Nigerian youth who are increasingly vocal about the misuse of religious authority. “This isn’t the Bible days where prophets can walk into your house uninvited,” one Instagram user posted. “You don’t get to call people out by name and pronounce limitations over their lives, then hide under the cloak of ‘thus says the Lord.’ There is a thin line between discernment and defamation.”

Uriel’s response has also revived conversation about the psychological impact of public prophecy, especially when it targets high-profile individuals. Mental health professionals on social media have weighed in, warning that such statements—whether true or not—can trigger emotional distress, anxiety, and even depression. “It’s spiritual bullying,” wrote a therapist on X. “Imagine telling someone they are too intimidating to be loved. That’s emotional violence disguised as divine truth.”

Still, some voices in the online space have tried to play devil’s advocate, questioning whether Uriel’s fame makes her fair game for public commentary—especially when it comes from religious leaders. “If she’s a public figure, then isn’t she already exposed to scrutiny?” asked one user. But Uriel’s fans were quick to counter that there is a line between public critique and personal attack, especially when such comments are made from the pulpit.

The controversy has also reignited discussions about women in the public eye and how they are often portrayed as too much—too bold, too strong, too successful—to be lovable. Uriel addressed this stereotype directly, stating, “Women like me are not too much. We are just enough. And the man who is meant for me will see that and honor it.”

Meanwhile, several celebrities and influencers have expressed solidarity with Uriel. Reality TV star Alex Unusual commented, “God does not speak to embarrass, He speaks to heal.” Actress Beverly Naya wrote, “We need to dismantle this mindset that strong women are threats to masculinity. It’s not a prophecy, it’s patriarchy.”

Uriel’s bold response has now been hailed as a moment of empowerment—not just for herself but for countless women who have been shamed, blamed, and labeled by people claiming divine authority. “Enough is enough,” Uriel said in her final note on the matter. “My life, my future, and my heart are not up for public dissection in the name of religion. If you truly speak from God, then speak life, not condemnation.”

As the dust settles on the controversy, what remains is a spotlight on how faith and personal boundaries can—and should—coexist. Uriel’s response has drawn a line in the sand, one that demands accountability from spiritual leaders and offers encouragement to anyone who’s ever been made to feel like they are unworthy of love because they dared to live boldly.

Whether or not Prophet Helen chooses to respond, one thing is clear: Uriel Oputa is not letting anyone rewrite her narrative—and certainly not in the name of prophecy.