“That’s Just Stupid!” — Skitmaker Maraji Blasts Man Who Says Men Deserve Equal Attention During Pregnancy and Childbirth

Popular Nigerian skitmaker and comedian, Maraji, has stirred up a heated debate online after reacting to a viral video of a man who claimed that men should be checked on during pregnancy and after childbirth. The video, which has been making waves on social media, featured a man complaining bitterly that when his wife gave birth, everyone was concerned about her wellbeing, while no one bothered to ask how he was coping. According to him, he went through a lot during that period and even stayed awake for 12 hours straight after his child was born, yet nobody appreciated or acknowledged his efforts.

The man’s statement quickly spread across platforms like X (formerly Twitter), TikTok, and Instagram, drawing mixed reactions from viewers. While some men supported his view and argued that husbands also experience stress and anxiety during childbirth, many others saw his comments as insensitive and self-centered. Among those who couldn’t stay silent about it was content creator Maraji, who is known for her sharp wit, bold opinions, and ability to speak frankly about social issues — especially those involving relationships and gender roles.

Reacting to the video, Maraji made it clear that she found the man’s comments absurd. In her words, it was “stupid” to compare a man’s experience during childbirth to that of a woman who goes through excruciating pain and life-threatening risk to bring a baby into the world. “You cannot compare the pain of a woman to that of a man,” she said, emphasizing that the idea of both receiving the same level of attention is ridiculous.

She explained that pregnancy and childbirth are experiences that take a massive toll on a woman’s body and mind — from carrying the baby for nine months, to the intense labor pains, hormonal fluctuations, body changes, and recovery afterward. According to Maraji, the least a husband can do is be there for his wife, support her emotionally, and provide comfort during the process, not complain about not getting equal attention.

“The woman does everything,” Maraji said. “The only thing the husband is supposed to do is to be there for his wife. I’m not undermining the stress men go through while their wives are giving birth, but comparing her pain to a man’s and asking that they both get the same attention is stupid.”

Her statement immediately went viral, sparking another round of discussions across social media platforms. Many women praised her for saying what they’ve always wanted to say out loud — that childbirth is not a competition, and that men who expect the same recognition as women during that period are being unrealistic and selfish.

Comments flooded her page, with many mothers sharing their personal experiences of pregnancy and labor, describing the unimaginable pain they endured and the sacrifices they had to make. Some users pointed out that many women nearly lose their lives during childbirth, while others suffer long-term complications, postpartum depression, and sleepless nights, yet still get up to care for their babies. “After carrying a baby for nine months, enduring morning sickness, swollen feet, mood swings, and then surviving hours of labor, someone will say he didn’t sleep for 12 hours and deserves attention? What nonsense!” one user wrote.

Others, however, felt that Maraji’s tone was too harsh. Some male users argued that while they agreed childbirth is more painful for women, men should not be mocked or dismissed for expressing emotional distress. They explained that many men also go through anxiety, fear, and emotional pressure during their wives’ pregnancies, especially when witnessing the process firsthand. “It’s not a competition, it’s just that men are also human and sometimes need emotional support too,” a user commented.

Still, the majority seemed to side with Maraji’s perspective, saying that while empathy should be extended to both partners, there should be no confusion about who truly bears the physical and emotional brunt of childbirth. “The woman is the one who goes through the pain, her body changes, her hormones fluctuate, and she’s the one whose life is literally at risk,” another user wrote. “The man can be tired, yes, but it’s nowhere near comparable.”

Maraji’s response didn’t just come from a place of observation — she has personal experience with motherhood. The comedian welcomed her first child in 2021, and she has openly shared moments from her pregnancy and postpartum journey with fans. She once revealed that she struggled with postpartum depression and that adjusting to motherhood was far more challenging than she had ever imagined. Because of this, many people believe her words carry a deeper sense of authenticity.

In the viral video that triggered her reaction, the man appeared frustrated, saying he felt invisible after the birth of his child. “Nobody checked on me. Everyone was just focused on my wife. I didn’t even sleep for 12 hours after she delivered,” he complained. But to Maraji, such a statement reflects a lack of understanding and empathy for what women actually go through. “The woman’s body is tearing apart to bring a child into the world, and you’re talking about losing sleep for 12 hours?” she said in disbelief.

Her blunt take resonated strongly with many women who feel society often tries to center men’s emotions even in situations that clearly affect women more intensely. Social commentators noted that the video once again exposes how some men fail to grasp the magnitude of pregnancy and childbirth — experiences that can permanently alter a woman’s health, body, and emotional state.

While some social media users insisted that men deserve recognition for their emotional involvement, many others echoed Maraji’s sentiment that such conversations should not be framed as a comparison. Instead, they suggested that men should learn to provide genuine support and appreciation for their wives rather than seeking validation during moments meant to celebrate and care for the mother.

As the discussion continues online, it’s clear that Maraji’s statement struck a nerve because it challenges an ongoing narrative that often minimizes women’s pain or turns it into a shared burden to make men feel included. By calling out what she described as “stupid,” she wasn’t invalidating men’s emotions but was instead reinforcing the reality that childbirth is a uniquely female experience that deserves respect, understanding, and compassion.

In typical Maraji fashion, she delivered her opinion with confidence and unapologetic honesty — the kind that has made her one of Nigeria’s most admired voices in social commentary. Whether you agree with her or not, one thing is certain: her reaction has reignited an important conversation about gender, empathy, and perspective during one of life’s most intense and vulnerable experiences — childbirth.

As one fan aptly put it in the comment section, “Men can be tired, yes, but they’ll never understand what it means to die and come back just to bring another human into the world. So please, let’s stop comparing struggles that are clearly not equal.”

Maraji’s words may be blunt, but to many, they are nothing but the truth — a reminder that while both partners matter in the journey of parenthood, the woman who bears the pain, the scars, and the risk deserves the spotlight, the care, and the attention. And as far as she’s concerned, asking for equal sympathy at such a moment is not only misplaced — it’s just plain stupid.

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