"She Drove Her Boyfriend to the Mall with My Car": Talent Manager Temi Breaks Silence Amid Domestic Violence Allegations

In the latest twist of online drama that has gripped Nigeria’s social media space, talent manager Temi has finally spoken out in a fiery and unapologetic post, rejecting allegations of domestic violence leveled against him by his ex-partner. His words were anything but restrained, as he laid out his version of events and took aim at public perception, online gossip, and what he claims is a long-standing narrative designed to vilify him.

Temi’s statement comes after days of silence amid swirling rumors and accusations. “Don’t say anything; in one week, it’ll die down,” he wrote, referring to the advice he said he received when the allegations first surfaced. But the silence, he said, wasn’t an admission of guilt—it was strategy. And now, he insists, it’s his turn to set the record straight.

The post, raw and emotionally charged, offers more than just a rebuttal; it’s a scathing critique of what Temi views as the dangerous power of public opinion, misinformation, and selective memory. “But have you changed your perception of me since 2021?” he asked rhetorically. “Have you changed the 'Saint & Demon' narrative in your stupid box head?”

Temi didn’t just defend himself—he painted a picture of manipulation and betrayal. Central to his account was an incident he said occurred in December 2022. According to him, the only physical altercation between him and his ex-partner took place when he needed to leave the house for a meeting but discovered she had taken his car keys. Not only had she used his car to drive her boyfriend to the mall, he claims, but she was preparing to take his second car when he confronted her.

“She had seized my keys,” he wrote. “After using [my car] to drive her boyfriend to the mall—hello Erhiyadh.” The name-drop sparked speculation online about the alleged boyfriend’s identity, but Temi left it at that. He described the confrontation that followed as chaotic, with his ex’s mother allegedly getting involved to restrain him. “Joined by her mother, I had to fight myself off their grip,” he said, alleging he sustained a bruised eye in the scuffle and had to wear sunglasses to an evening meeting to conceal the injury.

It was after this incident, Temi claims, that he was reported for domestic violence—an accusation he adamantly denies. “Me, hit Amaka? NEVER, I repeat, NEVER!” he declared in all caps. He said the report was made through his ex’s lawyer uncle, who later, after hearing his side of the story at the police station, apologized and even requested to become friends. Temi’s message to the public was laced with rage: “I say when I'm ready, y’all better grab popcorns and I hope you choke on it, gullible idiots.”

Temi’s account comes at a time when public discourse on gender-based violence and accountability is louder and more scrutinized than ever. Celebrities and public figures are increasingly being held accountable by a generation armed with social media and a zero-tolerance stance on abuse. But Temi seems to be pushing back against what he views as a rush to judgment, one that, in his words, unfairly paints him as a “demon” and his ex as a “saint.”

The post did not include evidence or third-party confirmation of the events described. However, the visceral nature of the message, and the sheer frustration that underpinned it, sparked immediate online debate. While some critics condemned his tone and language, others took a more sympathetic stance, suggesting the public might have been too quick to believe one side of the story.

In his message, Temi also questioned the credibility of an alleged exclusive interview given by his ex-partner, hinting that the story had gaps or lacked specifics. “They even said she did an exclusive interview,” he wrote. “She for drop details na.”

The fallout from Temi’s statement is still unfolding. Social media is ablaze with commentary, hashtags, and armchair investigations. Screenshots, past posts, and videos are being pulled up and dissected in real time. Despite the chaos, one thing is clear: this isn’t a simple he-said-she-said. It’s a war of narratives, reputations, and emotions, played out for millions to witness.

But for Temi, this appears to be just the beginning. He hinted at revealing more when he’s ready, suggesting there’s still much the public hasn’t heard. “When I'm ready,” he wrote ominously. “Y’all better grab popcorns.”

For now, he seems to be focused on reclaiming his story, regardless of how messy, controversial, or polarizing that may be. Whether this bold move helps rehabilitate his image or adds fuel to the fire remains to be seen. But one thing is undeniable—Temi is no longer staying silent.

As the online community continues to dissect every word, every tweet, and every past interaction, it’s clear that the court of public opinion is very much in session. And in this case, like many others in the social media age, the verdict may be less about truth and more about whose version resonates louder.