Bobrisky Exposes Old DMs: ‘You Trolled Me, But Offered ₦15 Million to Sleep With Me in 2021’

Popular Nigerian crossdresser and internet personality, Bobrisky, is once again making headlines after calling out a man who allegedly trolled him publicly but had privately offered him ₦15 million to sleep with him back in 2021. The social media drama unfolded when Bobrisky took to his Instagram to share receipts of the unsolicited message the man had sent him years ago, calling out the hypocrisy of the individual who had mocked him online.

The controversy began when a user identified by the handle @official_iggu took to Bobrisky’s Instagram page to criticize and question him over a video that was posted and later deleted. The user mocked Bobrisky’s appearance and questioned his health status, even going as far as suggesting that whoever performed his surgeries should be arrested. Bobrisky, who is no stranger to criticism and trolling online, did not let this one slide. Instead, he fired back with a bombshell — revealing that the same man who is now publicly ridiculing him had privately slid into his DMs in 2021 with an offer of ₦15 million in exchange for a night with him.

In a now-viral Instagram story, Bobrisky posted a screenshot of the explicit message sent to him years ago. The message read, “I want to f*** you, I will pay you ₦15m.” He captioned the post with a scathing note directed at the man: “You don’t like my body, yet you’ve been in my DM since 2021. Are these people crazy or what?” Bobrisky expressed his frustration with people who send such messages privately, then turn around to insult and shame him publicly.

“I didn’t do anything to you, but you just chose to troll me,” he continued. “Please, can someone tag his family members?” Bobrisky’s clapback struck a chord with his fans and critics alike, sparking a wave of reactions across social media platforms. While some hailed him for exposing the hypocrisy, others criticized him for keeping the message hidden for so long.

According to Bobrisky, the moment he refuses to respond to their direct messages, these same people become aggressive and start looking for ways to publicly humiliate him. “The moment you don’t respond to their DM, they get mad and also try to troll you,” he said, highlighting the psychological game that plays out behind the scenes of social media celebrity life.

The man in question had also accused Bobrisky of knowing he wasn’t healthy, implying that the crossdresser's appearance and behavior were indications of deeper issues. Bobrisky, however, turned the situation on its head, using the man’s past message as a form of public defense — and a warning to others. His message was clear: if you dare to insult him, be ready to have your skeletons dragged out into the spotlight.

The online exchange comes amidst growing public discourse about Bobrisky’s controversial surgeries and evolving appearance. Many social media users have speculated about the health implications of his transformation journey, often questioning his choices and sometimes resorting to online bullying. But Bobrisky has always maintained that he is living his truth and doesn’t owe anyone an explanation for how he chooses to live his life.

This incident, however, adds another layer to the ongoing debate around privacy, online behavior, and the double standards that celebrities, especially LGBTQ+ figures in Nigeria, are often subjected to. In a country where homosexuality remains criminalized and queer expression is heavily policed, Bobrisky’s existence and flamboyance continue to challenge social norms, drawing both admiration and intense scrutiny.

Supporters of Bobrisky argue that the troll’s past message is a reflection of the many closeted individuals in society who publicly condemn queer people while privately desiring them. The contradiction is not new, but Bobrisky’s bold decision to publicize the DM reignited conversation around the toxic culture of shame, hypocrisy, and silence.

“This is the reality for a lot of queer-presenting people in Nigeria,” one commenter wrote. “People fetishize you in private but demonize you in public. It’s exhausting.” Another user commented, “Bobrisky is controversial, yes, but this level of exposure was needed. Let’s stop pretending.”

While the identity of the man behind the message has not been publicly confirmed, internet sleuths have begun digging, with several speculating based on the visible parts of the Instagram handle. Bobrisky, however, seems unfazed, moving on to post more glamorous photos and videos shortly after the clapback, proving once again that nothing keeps the social media maven down for long.

Known for his luxury lifestyle, designer outfits, and over-the-top declarations of self-love, Bobrisky has built an online empire rooted in controversy, confidence, and clapbacks. Whether it’s gifting himself a Range Rover for his birthday or claiming that his boyfriend flies him to Dubai every other weekend, the self-proclaimed "Mummy of Lagos" has consistently kept the internet talking.

Still, this latest drama serves as a reminder that beneath the glitz and filtered photos lies a person navigating layers of social stigma and personal boundaries. Bobrisky’s decision to expose the 2021 DM could be seen as both a power move and a cry for respect — demanding that people own their truth or at least stay quiet if they once tried to access his private world.

As usual, Nigerians are divided. Some believe Bobrisky should ignore trolls entirely and take the high road, while others support his method of "dragging" hypocrites who come for him unprovoked. Either way, it’s clear Bobrisky isn’t backing down anytime soon. If anything, he’s doubling down — turning the very hate thrown at him into content, and the trolling into trending.

One thing is certain: in the chaotic world of Nigerian social media, Bobrisky remains a headline-generating force, and stories like this are only fueling the fire.