“2nd Born Wahala!” — Actor Tobi Bakre Laments as His Daughter Destroys TV for the Second Time This Year

Nollywood actor and Big Brother Naija star, Tobi Bakre, has once again found himself at the receiving end of a toddler’s mischief as he took to social media to share his frustration after his little daughter broke their television — for the second time this year. The proud father, known for frequently giving fans glimpses into his family life, could not hide his mix of amusement and helplessness as he narrated the incident, leaving parents across social media nodding and laughing in empathy.

Tobi, who has become one of the most relatable celebrity dads on Instagram, posted a short but hilarious message expressing both disbelief and resignation over the latest household accident. “2nd born children ehn! Sigh... and I can’t even get mad,” he wrote, accompanied by a photo that perfectly captured the mood of a man trying to process yet another expensive casualty caused by his child. He continued, “2nd time this year! Am I the only person seeing Shege from 2nd born!” The post immediately went viral, as thousands of parents, especially those with multiple children, flooded his comments with laughter, shared experiences, and consoling words.

For many, Tobi’s post was a perfect snapshot of modern-day parenting — the chaos, the laughter, the unending expenses, and the unconditional love that makes it all worthwhile. Fans couldn’t help but point out how much they enjoyed seeing a celebrity being so open about the not-so-perfect moments of parenting. While Tobi’s screen career and fitness journey often show his strong, composed side, this moment reminded everyone that even the most patient parents have limits when it comes to mischievous toddlers.

One fan humorously commented, “Tobi, you should just mount the TV on the ceiling at this point, these 2nd borns don’t fear anything.” Another follower added, “You’re not alone o! My 2nd born poured milk on my laptop last week. They are special agents of destruction.” The flood of reactions turned Tobi’s frustration into a trending parenting topic across X (formerly Twitter) and Instagram, as people shared their own “2nd born wahala” stories, making the phrase “seeing Shege from second borns” a new catchphrase among Nigerian parents.

Those familiar with Tobi Bakre’s family know how much he adores his children. The actor and his wife, Anu, tied the knot in 2021 and have since welcomed two adorable kids who often steal the spotlight whenever he shares family moments online. Tobi, who rose to fame after finishing as a finalist on Big Brother Naija Season 3, has since built a solid career in acting and content creation, earning critical acclaim for his roles in movies like Brotherhood and Gangs of Lagos. Yet, in moments like this, it’s clear that his biggest and most unpredictable role is being a dad.

Interestingly, many fans pointed out that second-born children often have a reputation for being the most adventurous and strong-willed in the family — something psychologists have long associated with birth order behavior. While the firstborn tends to be cautious and obedient, the second-born is often described as independent, daring, and eager to challenge boundaries. Tobi’s humorous lament seemed to fit that stereotype perfectly, as his daughter’s boldness has now cost him two televisions in less than a year.

Still, rather than get angry, Tobi’s tone showed patience and understanding, a quality that endeared him even more to his fans. Parenting experts who chimed into the online conversation praised him for his calm reaction. One comment read, “This is how you know a parent who understands children. He’s frustrated, yes, but he knows getting mad won’t solve anything. Love and teaching will do more than shouting.” Another parent wrote, “You see that sigh he wrote? That’s the universal sound of every Nigerian parent trying not to cry over something expensive.”

The conversation took a comedic turn as celebrities and fellow parents joined in. Former BBNaija housemate and friend of Tobi, Elozonam, joked, “Bro, just buy one of those indestructible TVs they use in banks.” Media personality Toolz Oniru also reacted, laughing, “2nd borns are built different! My own broke my phone twice in one week. Solidarity, brother.” Even Tobi’s wife, Anu, reportedly joined in on the fun, teasing that she had warned him to keep the TV out of reach.

Beyond the laughter, the moment highlighted a softer, more relatable side of celebrity life — showing that fame and fortune don’t shield anyone from the everyday chaos of parenting. It also gave fans a rare look into the reality of Tobi’s home life, where even though he is a star on-screen, at home, he’s just “Daddy” trying to keep up with two energetic kids.

The actor’s post gained over 100,000 likes within hours and sparked a wave of comments from parents who said they could relate deeply. Some even offered practical advice, suggesting he invest in a wall-mounted TV or childproof barriers. Others shared their own “war stories,” ranging from children flushing phones down the toilet to drawing on freshly painted walls. One mother wrote, “Tobi, at least it’s the TV. My second-born cut her hair and her sister’s with scissors last month. We’re still recovering.”

While Tobi may have lost another TV, he’s certainly gained even more admiration from fans for handling the situation with grace and humor. His ability to turn a frustrating domestic mishap into a shared moment of laughter once again proves why he remains one of the most loved personalities to come out of Big Brother Naija. His authenticity continues to set him apart in an era where many celebrities carefully curate perfect images online.

The phrase “2nd born children ehn!” has since become a trending quote across Nigerian social media platforms, inspiring memes, skits, and even parody posts. Some fans jokingly suggested that Tobi should start a “2nd Born Support Group” for parents dealing with similar situations. Others insisted that he record a comedy skit about it, hinting that he could easily turn the experience into content gold.

In a world where social media often highlights only the glamorous side of life, Tobi’s willingness to share his imperfect, human moments is both refreshing and comforting. It reminds people that even the most composed individuals have their breaking points — or in this case, broken TVs. Parenting, after all, is a journey filled with laughter, love, frustration, and unforgettable memories.

As fans continue to laugh and empathize, one thing is certain — Tobi Bakre’s daughter may have broken the TV, but she’s also helped strengthen the bond between her dad and his audience. Whether this incident becomes a running joke or inspires a lesson in childproofing, it has already made its mark as one of the most wholesome celebrity parenting moments of the year.

For now, Tobi seems to have accepted his fate, signing off his viral post with a sigh that every parent could understand. “2nd born children ehn… and I can’t even get mad.”

Because sometimes, in the chaos of parenting, love always wins — even over a shattered television screen.